28 November 2013, Day 438

What is the true meaning of love? Is there any specific definition to define what is love? Some says that love is the feeling that can make you blind. Some says that love is the feeling when a boy and a girl have a mysterious feeling which cannot be describe nor specify by using a word. For example, we know the feeling of pain when we get cut. We know the feeling of happy when we can get something that we want. What is hidden in the word, "love"? Is there any magic power hidden in the love? Does true love exist in our life?

There is no exact answer. Some do believe that true love exist in our life. Some may say that true love only exist in novel, movies and so on. In my opinion, true love will exist only when one appreciates and care for their partner. How many of the couples willing to guard their loved one until their last breathe? I know that it is hard to know whether the one that you loved and being with you for all these while is your true angel or not. The one that shares your happiness and sadness, staying beside you when you are feeling down, help you to solve trouble is your angel? How sure are you that the one you loved is the one who can walks with you for the entire life?

We love someone is not simply because we have feelings towards that person or feels guilty and this is what I can do to repay him or her. Love someone is because you believe that he or she is willing to walk the entire life with you. We do always hear of the swear in marriage that is he or she willing to become as their husband or wife no matter they are wealthy or poor, healthy or illness, happy or sad without any regret for the entire life. How many of them can do it? It's touching when we see this scenario, tears are out in most of our eyes. It is easy to say it out but it is also hard to do it. Like those old people says,it is not difficult to love a person, but it is difficult to guard a person.

I'm sure that everyone hopes their loved one can pamper them like a kitten or a puppy, care them just like how they care for their parents. In reality, there is no such thing as a perfect partner. There are some times that the couples or husband and wife will argue, disagree with opponent's thought or even mind that their loved one does not focus on themselves. Some will think that argue is not necessary will give them a bad impact, instead, this will give them an opportunity to understand more on each other's thought and opinion. But, of course there are many better way to know and understand each other more deeply. Not everyone can reads opponent's mind, they are not your brain cells or even part of your brain. They are not microscope which can look at your part of cells clearly.

Sometimes, you will think of why is he or she ignores you for a moment. Do you ever think of the side of his or her view? Ignored you doesn't mean he or she does not cares you, everyone has their own life. In their life,they have family and friends. They have their leisure and lifestyle besides with you. In your view,you may feel that he or she is selfish for ignoring you for a moment. But, how about the opponent? They may also feel that you are selfish too. Feeling regret of what you did? Cold war and wait for he or she find you first? Is sorry hard to say and meaningful? For them, is your sorry sincere to them? You might feel why I am the one who always apologize and the one who always wrong, why can't you do that to me. Ask yourself, why can't both of you cool down and think of it. Is it important that who do it first? Instead of keep asking why, ask yourself, how and what should I do in order to build up your relationship.

Everyone has different thought and character. Human is an animal with full of emotion. Why can't we step back and say sorry and forgive each other. Isn't it better than staying strong on your feet? Love is that awesome and mysterious! No matter how much you angry him or her, at last, you will be back to their side. Maybe it will lead to a temporary scar or a permanent scar on your body. Will you put some salt on your scar, leave it there, forget about it or remove it? It's your choice and decision on what to do with your scar. Appreciate the one that you really love and do feel lucky that you have him or her as a part of your life that makes your life as colourful as the colours around you.